I think the title Mrs or rather the status married is used for the wrong reasons & I’m very upset!
Because some (I repeat, SOME) of these married people are likely to use husband and wife and kids as excuses to decline work tasks. What happen is in most scenes, when they intentionally do that, those unwanted tasks are usually or shall I say assuredly, changing over to the hands of poor singles like automatically. How unfair!
I want these type of married people to take note that we singles are as busy as they are. We also have stuff to take care of stuff like personal stuff that I believe is not necessarily to be made public.
Frankly, I don’t mind doing extra hours whatever but I want to be able to do something because I wanna do it, because I love doing it and because I know I’m capable of doing it.
Not because I’m the chosen one, the last resort, nobody wants to do it so they assign me as a replacement. Neither because they make me do it.
I want to have options because after all we’ve been given equal amount of time & space and we’re all placed under one system. I don’t see why there should be any difference in terms of workload based on what status you are, Miss or Mrs.
I’m not that selfish though, I sure can tolerate honest excuses but please tolerate my limits as well okay?